India is married. Of course he has some cockamamie story about how they haven’t slept together for years, have separate quarters, she had moved out but it was too expensive so she came back… Whatever, he’s married. I never in my life thought that I would be OK with this, but I am. He didn’t hide it, and it actually uncomplicates things incredibly. He’s not free to ask anything of me, and I don’t expect anything of him. We can enjoy our time together when we get it….end of story.