No more Mr. Four-Hour-Lunch. I liked the guy, but all he could muster up was 10 hours in the first month of dating. I understand he has a job with crazy hours, so do I. I can’t be an afterthought, I need to be a priority. When he needed time off to coach his daughter’s softball team, he made it happen. I needed the same commitment. It sounds crazy to even be saying this shit a month in, but he wanted to be serious from the get go. I’m OK being all in, but then you also have to be all in. It’s a two way street.