I had asked my ex if he would agree to use the on line program that hosts communication between parents (because of the volatile texts that his girlfriend sends me through his phone). He disagreed, of course. The other day I got a call from my lawyer saying that my ex had called to make a counter offer….he would agree to use the computer program if I changed my name. I literally laughed out loud. He’s no longer going to bully me into anything…my lawyer agreed. I’m also pretty sure that this request comes from the girlfriend, and that they are planning on marrying. Good luck with that!